Monday, October 8, 2007

Moving on 101

I used to think moving on after a loooooooooooong time relationship was that hard...i mean really difficult as in it gonna take you ages to be able to do so. But then I realized....it's that easy! Hey but don't tell me maybe I didn't love him. I did. Was so in love with him...gave my heart...my soul...and everything in me because at that time I really thought that he's going to be my forever. No one can really tell who you going to end up with. Even if you so desperately wish and try to work things out with all your might---- end of line... it's not really in your hands. Time will tell. Fate will determine. Destiny will conclude.

Here's the tip....Moving on 101.....

1. Accept the fact that it's over. A sentence always has a "period" or "full stop" in its ending. So once the relationship ends....full stop(.)! It's not a comma(,) that u can pause for a while then continue with the sentence. Once it ends in a full stop....the sentence is finished. You can begin with another one. A new sentence.

2. Look forward into meeting others. Go out and have fun. Don't lock yourself in a tower and just wait for another Prince Charming to come and sweep you off your feet.

3. Throw away the chains that locked your hearts. Yours needs to be free as well as his. So give both yourselves the chance to feel free to love again.

4. Be thankful that you've had this chance to have loved him/her. Admit it ...your time together when both of you still feel the same intensity of love...they were all wonderful!

5. Don't feel sad that you're losing him/her just be happy that he/she is working now in pursuing his/her dreams. A great love is to allow your partner to let him/her have his/her dreams even if it meant saying goodbye and losing him/her forever.

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