Why is it that people would always complain even shout at the top of their lungs ……that life has been unfair to them during the lowest points in their lives whereas when they’re at the highest and on the top they would never even care to tell the good news to everyone that life has been fair to them? WHY?
The adikz here were right in telling that it would be a matter of attitude on how you see life? If you see it that way (that life is unfair and it sucks!)— then things would fall exactly as you had perceived it to be. But if you see it in the opposite you would be surprised at how life can be so great that there are things to be happy about and be thankful. You had been blessed in life that you are only suffering this kind of pain. A lot of people had been worrying about food to put in their mouths, or a home to keep them warm at night. I had been heart broken many times and yes it did hurt but never would I complain that life sucks! Being heart broken gives you more time to assess yourself on what could have been wrong there and thus making you a better person. There are more things to worry about. And they are more important. How would you say about start focusing more on your family…how will you able to help them?….how about even for a day…start thinking about that poor kid in street who needs to ask alms so that he could feed himself…how about telling your parents how much you love them? or maybe call your friends whom you haven’t talk for a long time?
before you go to bed tonight think of 5 simple things that you have to be thankful for today. do it every night for a month. I am sure by that time you will never ever think that life is unfair and it sucks. For LIFE is the EXACT OPPOSITE of what you've said.
March 2008
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